Five things to do after a break up...
Most times these methods bring them back... Most times it doesn't..
1. Heal and move on
2.Dont act as though you are the victim
3.Dont hate them.. When you see them laugh and hug them as if you were still dating...still celebrate their birthdays.. Buy them gifts and take them out even as EX.. don't discuss anything intimate.. Just talk about life and business..
4.Build yourself.. Learn a skill.. Go somewhere new.. Be as free as a bird.. Don't be a flirt after break up.. Be decent and still be who you are supposed to be..
5. Don't speak ill about them to friends.. When they come to tell you rubbish about them just say.. It's well..
Speak his good part and when speaking about their mistakes dont sound painful..
Ex can be return... Ex can still marry...
My wife now.. Was my Ex... We broke up for 8 months.. She sent me a break up text while I was in my degree examination... I had issues with my results because of that...
But after 8 months we came back 2012 and together founded young ministers network 2013...and married 2019..
Pic from my Traditional Marriage 2020 |
After break up... Destiny will bring you back.. But you shouldn't spoil it with your attitude... Practice the little I have said above... She did all
By Apst Onyebuchi Kalu
Founder of The Young Ministers Network